Your relationship is over but you’ve waited to have the “Dear John” talk. Here’s how to do it (nicely). It may seem insensitive or trivial. Who do I think I am – writing your “Dear John” letter; your script to break the news to your spouse that you want a divorce?  But here’s the thing. It stresses everyone out. No one can sleep the days, weeks and sometimes months or years before they tell their spouse they want out. Hundreds of people have asked me how to approach this crucial step in the process. So, I created a guide. These are just suggestions – but, maybe you’ll use it verbatim. Maybe you’ll find the “right words” after you read this.…