No one plans for divorce, but if you’re here, you’re probably trying to get your bearings. Missouri has its own rules, timelines, and quirks when it comes to ending a marriage. This guide covers the legal basics in plain language, so you can understand your options and figure out your next move with more clarity (and less Googling).
Either spouse must have lived in Missouri for at least 90 days before filing.
There is a 30-day minimum waiting period after filing before a divorce can be finalized.
Missouri does not require spouses to live apart before filing or finalizing a divorce.
Missouri is a pure no-fault divorce state. You only need to show that the marriage is “irretrievably broken.” No proof of wrongdoing is required. That said, misconduct (like abuse or hiding assets) can still factor into decisions about alimony or property division.
Filing fee varies by county, but is generally around $160–$200. Other costs may include:
Can’t afford the fees? You can file a Motion to Proceed In Forma Pauperis to request a waiver.
Missouri follows equitable distribution, not 50/50 by default.
The court considers:
Separate property (e.g., gifts, inheritance, premarital assets) is typically excluded unless commingled.
Spousal maintenance is available but not automatic. Factors include:
Types of alimony:
Judges refer to Form 14 but there is no strict formula.
Missouri prefers joint legal and physical custody unless one parent is unfit. The court uses the best interests of the child standard and considers:
Missouri uses Form 14 to calculate child support. Both parents’ income and custody time are factored in. Use the Missouri Child Support Calculator to estimate payments.
Military members can file if they or their spouse live or are stationed in Missouri. Federal protections like the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) apply.
Some counties allow e-filing. Check your local court’s website or visit Missouri Courts eFiling Info.
After your divorce (dissolution) is finalized:
Missouri divorce is relatively straightforward—especially if both parties agree—but things like property, custody, and spousal support can still get complex. Know the rules, stay organized and don’t hesitate to seek our guidance if you need it.