Everyone knows someone who has been or is getting divorced. Divorce isn’t rocket science. But it is confusing, and a process. It’s essentially filing a lawsuit and, as we all know, when a lawsuit is filed, you enter the legal system. If you’ve ever dealt with a bureaucracy before (think: a frustrating encounter with the Department of Motor Vehicles), you know that there’s a game and you have to play it (correctly), to get through it.