Will Coronavirus / COVID-19 Affect My Divorce?, Hello Divorce

Will Coronavirus / COVID-19 Affect My Divorce?

Coronavirus, or COVID-19, has been a big concern for the world since early 2020. While a lot of things have been put on hold, your divorce doesn’t have to be one of them. In fact, here are reasons why it shouldn’t be.

Lots of questions surround how COVID could affect your divorce process. This Q&A helps you prepare yourself for if and when COVID impacts your divorce.

I’m quarantined due to COVID-19, but I’m in the middle of divorce negotiations with my ex. How will coronavirus affect my divorce, and how do we move forward if I can’t even leave the house?

Actually, if you’re working through Hello Divorce to complete your divorce, you’re already set up to complete the entire divorce process without leaving your house. You and your ex can complete your divorce paperwork, including financial disclosures, online via our Divorce Navigator, at your own pace, from wherever you want. And, our Divorce Plus and Divorce with Benefits packages will continue as usual, with a legal document assistant preparing all of your divorce documents for you and then sending them for you to sign digitally via our e-signature tool.

You (and your ex) can also access our flat-rate legal coaching and mediation services by phone, video, text or even online chat, all from the comfort of your own homes. 

Even if you are currently quarantined together, you can still get a divorce without leaving your house. 

You can complete your divorce online. And, it’s not as complicated as you might think.

Our service was built for a time like this. Never in our wildest dreams did we expect that our model would require a global pandemic to get really noticed and validated. But coronavirus has shown more and more divorcing couples just like you that our hybrid model, which pairs online services with legal help from legal document assistants, lawyers, and mediators, is not only the answer to keeping the ball moving forward – it’s a way to keep costs down and conflict low.

We help couples move forward to their next chapter as conveniently as possible, without all the drama ordinarily associated with divorce. The silver lining: We bring the cost of divorce WAY DOWN, from $26,300 per person (source) to $1,500 (per couple).

If you’re using a traditional lawyer or your own mediator, feel free to ask for a phone or video consultation to keep negotiations moving forward. Most firms are set up to provide these services to their clients. 

Will Coronavirus / COVID-19 Affect My Divorce?, Hello Divorce

What will happen to my divorce case if I have to go to court but my ex or I get sick with coronavirus/COVID-19 before our appearance? 

It goes without saying that if you have (or think you have) coronavirus, you should not appear in court. Most courts now offer virtual hearings. (Even courthouses that are open). Check your local county court website for details.

If you are planning to appear in person at a court hearing and get sick several days in advance of your court date, contact your spouse to find out if they will agree to a continuance. Assuming they have even an ounce of integrity, they will agree. The two of you can submit a form requesting that the court change your hearing to another date. If not, contact the court clerk in the courtroom that you have been assigned to let them know you’re sick. 

Another option in many courts is to appear by “court call.” This typically requires sign-up through a third-party provider. You usually need to get permission to appear by telephone, but that requirement may be suspended in light of coronavirus. 

Call for local instructions

Sometimes, local courts have different instructions. It’s a good idea to call the general line for the family law clerk to find out what those are. In Colorado, for example, most courts are open for business online. And, finally, if you are in California, you can check this link to find out the court’s hours.

The good news is, if you’re working with Hello Divorce, our goal is to keep you out of court altogether. So, if you’re starting the divorce process now and assumed you’d have to appear in court, that may not be true. We’ll do everything in our power to work with you and your ex to keep your case out of the court system. 

Here’s an overview of our services:

  • DIY Divorce: Use our Divorce Navigator software to generate ALL of your mandatory divorce paperwork (including the settlement agreement).
  • DIY Pro: You complete three guided online interviews (via our Divorce Navigator). We handle all the procedural stuff (like filing the documents at court and getting them (peacefully) served).
  • Divorce Plus: A “handheld” approach. After an initial online intake process, our divorce experts streamline the entire process for you, start to finish. We prepare your documents, send them to you (and your spouse), and file them with the court.
  • Divorce with Benefits: Same as Divorce Plus + 2 hours of legal coaching or mediation with an experienced lawyer.

If none of these options fit your specific needs, you are welcome to request a quote, schedule a free 15-minute info call, or check out our a la carte options.

Pay as you go

The point is, you pay as you go. That way, you never pay for something you don’t need. Our DIY resources, articles, worksheets, step-by-step guidance, videos, and interactive tools like our Divorce Navigator help you complete and print file-ready (and editable) copies of all of your California or Colorado divorce paperwork online.

You can talk with a member of our legal team on-demand to get specific advice about your case at a flat-rate fee in whatever way that suits you: Zoom, Skype, email, Google Hangouts, text, or the old-fashioned telephone.

Book your free 15-minute divorce informational call with us at this link, now.

RELATED: The Hello Divorce Podcast: Navigating Divorce & Co-parenting During the COVID-19 Pandemic

Could the California court system close down (again) due to coronavirus/COVID-19? What would that mean for my divorce case?

While most courts are back in session, it’s important to check this link for updates on the California court system and any instructions they provide. In cases that are rescheduled, the court will send you a notice of the new date. So, make sure you have your correct address on file with the court. 

As an alternative to the California court system, you could also consider appointing a private judge to handle your case or work with an online mediator (provided your ex agrees).

My job is at risk, or my small business has already taken a huge hit from coronavirus/COVID-19. Can I adjust child and support payments now? Can I adjust payments based on my projected losses?

Your best course of action is to talk to your ex directly and explain the situation.

We’ve entered new ground as a nation, and many of us have suffered the various economic impacts of this virus. So, make honesty your policy. Make it clear to your ex that you want to maintain communication during these uncertain times and that you plan to readjust payments when business picks up again. It’s probably also a good idea to demonstrate that you’re making adjustments in your own daily life. But, in general, keep in mind that any adjustments made to spousal and child support payments must go through the court to become enforceable.

If direct and straightforward conversation is not an option for you and your ex, consider filing a motion with the court to preserve the right to modify support back to the date your income took a hit. You may not get a court date to make this adjustment immediately, but hopefully when you do, you’ll see some financial relief. 

Also, if you and your ex can come to an agreement on support adjustments between now and a future court date, a stipulation can be prepared and filed so no court appearance is necessary. If you go this route, keep in mind that the agreement must be in writing and prepared as the court requires. Hello Divorce has lawyers and legal document assistants who are ready to help. (Request a quote here.)

What will happen to the kids if I get coronavirus/COVID-19? How will that affect my shared custody agreement? Will I be able to make up my lost visitation time with them after I’m healthy again? 

Legally speaking, it’s all going to go back to your co-parenting agreement. If you have concerns about that now, bring them up with your ex, and suggest amending your agreement. Being proactive about this now will save you worry, concern, and heartache later if this becomes an issue for you.

What happens if one of our kids gets coronavirus/COVID-19?

Once again, this is a scenario that you and your ex should discuss now. In theory, when you agreed on your co-parenting agreement, you discussed procedures to follow if your child gets hurt or needs medical treatment. That process will stand if one of your children contracts coronavirus. 

What you probably didn’t plan for is where that child should stay if they’re quarantined. This is a conversation to be having with your ex now

A few things to consider: If you have more than one child, you and your ex may wish that the healthy child resides in one home while the other parent cares for the sick child. Or, if one of you lives with an aging parent or someone else in a high-risk category, you may decide that the children (who likely interact with more people at school than the aging parent does in your home) should reside with the other parent to prevent even the possibility of bringing home and spreading the virus. 

How do we handle co-parenting with school closures due to coronavirus/COVID-19?

A school closure would typically be viewed similarly to a Monday holiday, but look to your child custody agreement if you have one. What does it say about how to handle things when the kids are sick or when there’s no school due to a teacher workday or a single-day holiday? That can be a guide. 

And of course, work with your ex. Talk. Communicate. Agree that in all of this uncertainty, the one thing that will remain rock solid is your commitment to making sure your kids are safe, happy, and know they are being taken care of.

I don’t really want to escalate things. But what if my ex is taking health risks or not taking coronavirus/COVID-19 seriously enough in a way that could impact the health of our kids?

If you are seriously concerned about your ex’s ability to safely co-parent, seek legal guidance right away. If your ex has come into contact with the virus or puts themselves in risky situations, a lawyer can advise you on how to handle the situation and keep your kids safe. 

If you’re in California, Hello Divorce can help. You can book legal coaching support in as little as 30-minute increments

Of course, what we all hope is this won’t be awful. If you find yourself homebound (i.e., telecommuting) but still healthy, maybe this is a good opportunity to start focusing on your divorce. If divorce is where the relationship is headed, it’s better to just move forward than stay in limbo. Here’s why. However, please note that assets could be significantly impacted (i.e., temporary decrease in value), so you might want to consider a new strategy or approach. As an example, if you were planning to use your stock portfolio to “buy out” your spouse’s interest in the property, that option may be unavailable now. Be flexible, or wait it out, depending on the specific circumstances of your case. 

These are uncertain times for all of us. Frankly, it feels like a weird science fiction novel where we’re all planning for and preparing to battle an enemy we can’t see. But as history has shown us, uncertain times can bring us together. Honest, open communication with your ex (even if you’re not friendly toward one another) about life’s “what ifs” is so important. Now is the time to gain clarity and on how to proceed with paperwork or negotiations, how to make adjustments if one or both of you takes a hit financially, and how your co-parenting might change in light of the virus and extreme measures of caution being taken worldwide.

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  1. Start by reviewing our membership options. If you’re not sure which one is the right fit, you can sign up for free as a Starter Member to access our free articles, resources, and worksheets.
  2. Join at the $99/month DIY Divorce membership. You’ll get free access to the Divorce Navigator, letting you work at your own pace to complete and file all of your divorce paperwork. Cancel any time you want. Join at the Divorce Plus or Divorce with Benefits level, and we can prepare and handle everything for you.
  3. Move forward. Complete your divorce paperwork. File it with the court, and wait for your divorce judgment to come through. Or, take advantage of our flat-rate legal services if issues arise that require legal counsel or you just need some help crossing the finish line.
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