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Stella Harris

Relationship Specialist

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Stella believes communication is key to satisfaction in relationships. Professionally trained as an intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, Stella brings empathy, expertise, and a fresh perspective to help clients find their sticking points and break through the roadblocks to their goals. Stella’s wide-ranging expertise has led to being featured on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools, appearing as an expert witness in court, and even speaking as an authority on banana slug mating habits. Stella lives in Oregon and is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow her on Instagram @stellaharriserotica.

Stella's Recent Articles

Sex After Divorce: Advice from a Certified Intimacy Educator and Coach
Sex After Divorce: Advice from a Certified Intimacy Educator and Coach
New relationships, romance, and sex after divorce can be scary, exciting, confusing at the same time. Navigate your post-divorce sex life.
Dating after Divorce: Everything You Need to Know
Dating after Divorce: Everything You Need to Know
Dating has changed drastically over the last ten to fifteen years. Get advice from a relationship coach on how to date after divorce.
How to Improve Your Relationships After Divorce
How to Improve Your Relationships After Divorce
Doomed to either be alone or keep repeating the relationship patterns that simply don't work out? Improve your relationships after divorce.
Recovering and Healing from Divorce Grief
Recovering and Healing from Divorce Grief
Divorce is more than the unwinding of a legal agreement. It’s the loss of an important life role. Its emotional after-effects should be handled with care.
How to Celebrate Your Divorce with a Divorce Party
How to Celebrate Your Divorce with a Divorce Party
Divorce is rough. Celebrate your accomplishment and your new beginning with a divorce party – here’s how.
Should You Divorce? What to Do When You Can't Make Up Your Mind
Should You Divorce? What to Do When You Can't Make Up Your Mind
Divorce-related decisions are hard to make. Here's how to figure out what's holding you back — and what you can do about it.
Is Your Ex Spouse Really a Narcissist?
Is Your Ex Spouse Really a Narcissist?
A close look at Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and how it affects relationships. Does your ex-spouse or partner meet the diagnostic criteria?
What if I Never Want to Date Again after Divorce?
What if I Never Want to Date Again after Divorce?
Singlehood has its benefits, and you don't have to date after divorce to be happy.
How to Do Self-Care if You’re Not Into Self-Care
How to Do Self-Care if You’re Not Into Self-Care
Why some people struggle with self-care, and what to do about it if you’re one of those people.