What Military Members Should Know When Divorcing in Utah

Military divorces can be complicated whether you or your spouse are active or past members. Below, you'll find information to help you through the specifics of your process.

Filing, serving, and answering the petition for divorce

To file for divorce in Utah:

  • You or your spouse must either reside in or be stationed in the state for at least three months.
  • You must file a petition for divorce in the county you live in.
  • In order for the court to have jurisdiction over a serving member, the active-duty spouse must be personally served with a summons and a copy of the divorce action. If you file for divorce in Utah, the State of Utah retains jurisdiction over your divorce even if you plan to move back to your hometown.

In the case of an uncontested divorce, it might be easiest if the active-duty spouse signs an Acceptance of Service as well as a Stipulation showing there is a mutual agreement between the two with respect to the divorce and its terms – thus avoiding the need for the spouse to be formally served.

Service Members' Civil Relief Act

The Service Members' Civil Relief Act (SCRA) is a federal law that governs and protects military personnel in terms of civil law procedures like divorce. These include laws that protect against being held in default upon failure to respond in time to a divorce application filed by a spouse, ensuring that they would be aware if a Petition for Divorce were filed against them, even if they were on duty at the time.

Utah courts have the discretion to postpone the divorce proceeding for the entire time the active-duty spouse is on duty, including up to 60 days after their duty ends. This is typically done in cases where the active duty member is away at war, but in general, it allows them to have time and a meaningful opportunity to go over their options. That said, the right to delay proceedings can be waived by the active-duty spouse in the event of an uncontested divorce.

Considerations when children are involved

In cases where children are involved, there are two things to consider: child custody and child support.

It is important to note that courts tend to be more flexible when it comes to custody and visitation plans when one (or both) of the parties are active service members. With respect to child custody, under Utah law, when a custodial parent is deployed, arrangements can be made to transfer full-time care of the children to the non-custodial parent in the custodial parent's absence. When a non-custodial parent is deployed, their parental rights including visitation can be transferred to a close family member.

Child support is still determined by the Utah guidelines. However, language can be added to the final documents to account for the variance in pay received when a service member is deployed.

Military pensions

Military retirement benefits are calculated and divided upon divorce as per the governing federal statute, the Uniformed Services Former Spouses' Protection Act (USFSPA). For marriages 10 years or longer, the Defense Finance and Accounting Service (DFAS) will make payments directly to the ex-spouse from the military pension.

Under these rules, after 10 years of marriage, a non-service spouse might be entitled to 50% of the military pension package, but in some instances, it can be even higher than that. For marriages less than 10 years in length, the ex-spouse can still be entitled to a portion of the retirement pension, but the payment must come directly from the service member spouse rather than directly from DFAS.

Military privileges

There are special military privileges that certain non-service ex-spouses can remain entitled to following their divorce and with certain rules being met. Some privileges include access to base commissary facilities, base exchanges, military discounts, and continued use of TRICARE. These privileges are largely dependent on whether the serving spouse has been a member of the military for at least 20 years and if the marriage overlaps with the service period for either 15 or 20 years.


The first rule for determining eligibility is the 20/20/20 rule, which states that if the couple was married for 20 years or more, and the military service of the serving spouse was also 20 years or more (with a 20-year overlap between marriage and military service), the ex-spouse is entitled to full access to the perks. The ex-spouse can enjoy these benefits until they remarry. As well, the children of that marriage retain these privileges until they turn 23 years old or get married, whichever comes first.

It is important to note that under the 20/20/20 rule, TRICARE requires the non-service ex-spouse to register under their own name and Social Security number and that the benefit will cease once they remarry.


For those who don't meet the full 20/20/20 requirements, there's the 20/20/15 rule. The only difference is that the "15" signifies the overlap between the length of the marriage and the military service, meaning a 15-year overlap instead of a 20-year overlap. The main difference is that TRICARE coverage for the non-service spouse in these cases will be for one year only – unless they remarry sooner than that.

These rules have nothing to do with what happens in divorce with respect to assets, pensions, child support, etc. They speak to eligibility for particular military privileges only.


Uniformed Service Former Spouse Protection Act for Divorced Spouses in the Military.

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