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What Is a Non-Monetary Contribution to Marriage?

Calculating a fair split of marital property and spousal support in the divorce process can be tricky when one spouse makes contributions to the marriage that don’t involve cash but are still valuable. In such cases, it’s important to recognize the value of these contributions so there can be a reasonable division of marital assets in divorce.

Why non-monetary contributions to a marriage matter in divorce

When it comes to property division and spousal support, non-monetary contributions made over the course of the marriage are often considered. Non-financial contributions such as homemaking, parenting, and other services rendered by one partner can be just as valuable as the financial investments they make in a marriage. These contributions should be considered when dividing assets or determining the appropriate level of spousal support.

Examples of non-monetary contributions

Stay-at-home parenting

In a scenario where one spouse gives up their career to stay home and raise the kids, they may be entitled to spousal support that allows them to maintain the lifestyle they had prior to the divorce. This could take into account factors such as cost of living, childcare costs, educational expenses, and other necessary expenses the individual would have been able to provide for themselves if they had continued their career.

Homemaking

If one spouse puts in long hours at a job while the other devotes time and energy toward taking care of minor children and the family home, both partners should be fairly compensated for their contributions during the divorce proceedings. The partner who stayed home could receive spousal support if appropriate, as well as having an equal share in any jointly owned assets, such as real estate. 

Emotional support

One spouse may have provided emotional support throughout the marriage that was invaluable, even though it had no measurable tangible value. In such cases, courts may still recognize this contribution and factor it into the division of assets and the determination of spousal support payments.

A spouse who did not work outside the home during marriage may be entitled to alimony in divorce. The precise amount depends on several factors, including the length of the marriage, economic circumstances, and the non-working spouse’s earning potential.

Who decides the value of non-monetary contributions?

In an ideal situation, the couple would be able to reach an agreement based on their own input and understanding of what is fair in terms of a monetary award for the spouse who maid unpaid contributions. This can be done without the help of a third party. 

However, if needed, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) or mediator can provide assistance in determining a reasonable settlement that takes into account any non-monetary contributions made by either partner during the marriage. 

Ultimately, it may fall to the courts for a judge to weigh all relevant information and arrive at a decision regarding spousal support and property division.

FAQs

What are non-monetary contributions to a marriage?
Unpaid work and support that benefit the family, like caregiving, household management, and career support.

Do courts consider non-monetary contributions in divorce?
Often yes. Many courts weigh both financial and non-financial contributions when dividing property or deciding support.

What are examples of non-monetary contributions?
Childcare, elder care, coordinating school and medical needs, household management, and unpaid financial admin.

How can I show the value of my non-monetary work?
Track tasks and time, gather corroborating records, and tie your work to concrete outcomes such as reduced costs or a spouse’s career growth.

Do stay-at-home parenting and household labor count?
Yes. Full-time caregiving and running the household are recognized as meaningful contributions.

How do I use this information in settlement talks?
Share a short summary and organized exhibits during disclosures or mediation to support equitable division and realistic support.

Step-by-Step: Documenting Non-Monetary Contributions for Your Divorce

List your roles and responsibilities
Inventory caregiving, household, and career-support tasks you regularly handled.

Collect supporting records
Gather calendars, emails, logs, and documents that confirm your ongoing duties.

Quantify time and frequency
Estimate weekly hours and seasonal variations for major tasks.

Connect tasks to financial impact
Note reduced costs and ways your efforts enabled the other spouse’s earnings.

Draft a concise narrative
Write a one-page summary in clear, neutral language.

Organize documents for sharing
Bundle your summary and exhibits into a labeled PDF or folder.

Update as circumstances change
Add an addendum if your responsibilities increased during separation.

 
 

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Divorce Content Specialist & Lawyer
Divorce Strategy, Divorce Process, Legal Insights

Bryan is a non-practicing lawyer, HR consultant, and legal content writer. With nearly 20 years of experience in the legal field, he has a deep understanding of family and employment laws. His goal is to provide readers with clear and accessible information about the law, and to help people succeed by providing them with the knowledge and tools they need to navigate the legal landscape. Bryan lives in Orlando, Florida.