How to File for Divorce in Oklahoma
Divorce cases in Oklahoma are filed in the District Court for the county where you meet venue rules. Oklahoma follows equitable distribution and most cases proceed on no-fault incompatibility, which lets you focus on settlement instead of proving misconduct.
Requirements to File
At least one spouse must have lived in Oklahoma for six months before filing and typically lived in the filing county for 30 days. File in the District Court for that county. Oklahoma has waiting rules after filing: generally about 10 days if there are no minor children and about 90 days if there are minor children, though a judge may waive or shorten the longer period for good cause. There is no pre-filing separation requirement.
Step-by-Step Process
Choose your path and gather forms.
Plan an uncontested case if you agree on property, debts, and (if applicable) parenting. Prepare a Petition for Dissolution, Summons, and financial disclosures. With children, include a Parenting Plan and expect parent education in many districts.
File with the clerk.
File at the county District Court clerk (e-filing may be available). Pay the filing fee or request a fee waiver if payment is a hardship. You’ll receive a case number and filed copies.
Serve your spouse.
Use sheriff or process server, certified mail where allowed, or a signed acknowledgment of service. If you cannot locate your spouse despite diligent search, request alternate service such as publication. Keep your proof of service.
Track timelines and disclosures.
A respondent generally has 20 days after service to respond. Exchange complete, organized financials early; clean disclosures speed settlement and avoid continuances. Parenting cases may include classes or mediation.
Settle or set a hearing.
If you settle, file a Marital Settlement Agreement, child-related orders if applicable, and a proposed Decree of Dissolution. If issues remain, the court may schedule status conferences, mediation, and hearings.
Receive the final decree.
After the applicable waiting period and review, the judge enters a Decree of Dissolution of Marriage resolving property/debt division, alimony if any, custody/parenting time, child support, and any name change. Get certified copies for records and accounts.
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FAQs
Do we have to live apart before filing in Oklahoma?
No. There is no separation requirement, but most cases observe a short post-filing wait before finalization.
Which court handles divorces in Oklahoma?
The District Court for your county.
How long does an Oklahoma divorce take?
Uncontested cases without children may finish after a short wait; cases with minor children generally observe a longer wait unless waived, with overall timing driven by service, disclosures, and settlement.
