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Request for Order: Custody, Child or Spousal Support

If you're in California and want the court to make an order about child custody, parenting time, child support, and/or spousal support, then you have to ask the court to do so by filing a Request for Order (FL-300). In this request for order, you may request temporary child custody, child support, and/or spousal support orders.

When to use an RFO

You need to schedule a court hearing in order to ask that the court either make new orders or change existing orders made in your case.

Why do you need to file a form for an RFO? 

This form is used to request that the court make or change its orders in regard to child custody, child support, spousal support, lawyers fees, etc. You can ask the court to change orders involving child custody and visitation, child or spousal support, or lawyer’s fees.  Depending on what you are asking for you may need to fill out further forms as well.  This is also the form to use if you need a temporary emergency order, where the emergency involves immediate danger or harm to you or your children.

How to Complete a Request for Order for Custody

Template: Form FL-300

FAQs

What is a Request for Order in family court?
A Request for Order is a legal filing asking the court to make or change orders on issues like custody, child support, or spousal support.

When would I file a Request for Order?
You might file if you need temporary custody arrangements, adjustments to child support, or spousal support during your divorce or after orders are in place.

What information is included in a Request for Order?
It typically includes your proposed custody schedule or support amount, financial disclosures, and evidence supporting your request.

Do I need a lawyer to file a Request for Order?
While a lawyer can help, you can file on your own. Courts provide forms and instructions for self-represented individuals.

How long does it take to get a hearing after filing?
Timelines vary, but courts usually set a hearing within several weeks to a few months, depending on caseload and urgency.

What happens at the hearing?
Each side presents evidence and arguments. The judge then decides on custody, support, or other requested issues.

Step-by-Step: Filing a Request for Order in Family Court

Obtain the correct forms
Download the Request for Order and supporting forms from your court’s website or visit the courthouse.

Fill out the forms
Provide details about your custody request, support needs, and include financial disclosures as required.

File with the court
Submit your completed forms to the family court clerk and pay any required filing fees or request a fee waiver.

Serve the other party
Ensure the other parent or spouse receives copies of the forms through proper legal service.

Prepare for the hearing
Gather evidence, organize records, and outline your arguments to present clearly in court.

Attend the hearing
Arrive on time, remain respectful, and present your case to the judge.

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