As if “divorce by default” isn’t obscure enough, there are actually two types — and one is very different from the other. Both types refer to a divorce where one party filed a Petition for Dissolution if Marriage (FL-100) and the other does not formally respond (ie file a Response, FL-120). However, a “true default” is much more complicated than an “uncontested divorce.” Read on to learn more and see how we can help.
If a response has not been filed to the Petition for Divorce, the Petitioner (the spouse that filed for divorce) can move forward with the divorce by filing a Request for Default with the court. The effect of the Default is that the spouse who has not filed a Response will be giving up their right to have any say in their divorce. After (or concurrently) with the filing of a Request for Default, the Petitioner can prepare a (proposed) Judgment for the judge to review (and hopefully) sign off on. The court treats this type of divorce much differently than others because the Respondent is not participating in the divorce at all. In some cases, the judge will require the filing of additional forms or a “prove up hearing” to explain what orders you want and why (e.g. I’d like to sell the house and split the proceeds equally because we purchased the home during our marriage with joint funds). A judge may even want you to amend previously filed forms to provide more detail. Because this type of divorce can be tricky, you may want to meet with a lawyer to discuss how to proceed.
Default (aka “uncontested” or “amicable”) Divorce
This type of divorce is typically what Hello Divorce users choose when filing for divorce. Like a “true default,” the Respondent does not file a response. But in this scenario, your ex still signs the divorce agreement. If you and your spouse have a complete agreement or are working towards one, this is a great way to cut down on cost and time. And because your spouse is “participating” by signing the agreement at the end of the divorce, the judge doesn’t scrutinize it as much.